Hi K, I don't know if H is with her mum or not I'm just guessing! When my H first left me 12 years ago to move in with this OW, he got himself more and more in debt. She was in debt as well and in the end he couldn't stand it anymore and that's partly why he decided to come home. The important thing that you can do is not demand money off him. Let the OW make demands on him, he'll soon get fed up with it or her with him Don't dwell on it though, you're thinking too much about it. I know it's hard not to and you are probably right. It won't help yo move on, but it will make you feel better knowing that he's miserable, lol. We've just come back from a fun day in town and I've noticed I've had 2 missed calls from H. I rang him back but there was no answer, so I've left him a text. He's just rung me back now to say he can't see my son again this week as he's working tomorrow. That's the second sunday in a row he's let my son down Oh well, he's the one who's missing out!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Oh well, he's the one who's missing out!