better to love or be loved?

[willbwell]

my other thread is round and round we go.
h sees no reason in delaying. says he wants to move forward with D.
I quess I will deal when those papers come. so far we have been civil, amicable. I'm not a mean or ugly person. I did say in an email to him once that I don't have to be nice to him...not at threat , just an observation.
Surely he had to tell his attorney about his affair. He's saying right now he will be fair financially. I think he's afraid I'll expose the affair( its a no-no at his job)I think he wants this D done and over with. He wants to be a free man!