180 In a way I'm glad H new friend is not the 20 year old but its still sad that he is with her mom. Anyway dont think about it just keep moving on with your life and your son's life. You and your son are the most important ppl right now. And that is what I'm doing right now is working on how to improve myself to make me a better and healther mom to my boys. I know I have a lot of ppl that are supporting me thru this process. I'm still having a hard time trying to catch up on the bills that I'm in charge of thanks to my H. But I just learned that he is even more in debt then he was with me. And the sad part I don't feel sorry for him at all this is what he wanted. So I wonder what OW thinks about him now cause he no longer has the Money to spend on her and their outings. Any way from what I her OW has a really good job so maybe now she is the one that has to fork out all that money that he use to do I wonder how much longer she will support him now since he has no money. And I also heard that he has been working a lot more hours just to be able to catch up on his bills. So now OW will hardly see him cause he has to work so much. Well I won't worry about it anymore because this is what they both wanted for themselves. I should try saying that H left me and see what our family and friends would say.


M:42
H:37
M:14yrs
S:13; S:9
Found out PA:8/2012
2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013
H asked for D:6/2013
H moved out: 8/2013
H & OW moved in together: 8/2013