D19's in jail. There was a bench warrant for her arrest due to her failure to perform community service for a charge of attempted theft she incurred about 6 months ago. Yesterday she was stopped for expired tags, then jailed when the warrant was found. Roommate says cop expects D19 to be released Monday.
Sigh. I did, I thought, all the things I was supposed to do for D19 (and the 3 boys) when she was growing up. Stay at home mom until she was 13. Stayed married to H. Read books. Hugged. (Last time she was home I played with her hair as I passed by. "Don't touch me. You're just weird.")
Maybe I should take comfort in the fact that she expressly told roommate to contact me? Perhaps this means she isn't entirely removed?
H just left for the casino.
I work at fastfoodland later this morning. Think I'm going back to bed for now.
~ Jay
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.