smile Hi Portia. Thank you so much for stopping by.

Received a text from D19's roommate last night.

D19's in jail. There was a bench warrant for her arrest due to her failure to perform community service for a charge of attempted theft she incurred about 6 months ago. Yesterday she was stopped for expired tags, then jailed when the warrant was found. Roommate says cop expects D19 to be released Monday.

Sigh. I did, I thought, all the things I was supposed to do for D19 (and the 3 boys) when she was growing up. Stay at home mom until she was 13. Stayed married to H. Read books. Hugged. (Last time she was home I played with her hair as I passed by. "Don't touch me. You're just weird.")

Maybe I should take comfort in the fact that she expressly told roommate to contact me? Perhaps this means she isn't entirely removed?

H just left for the casino.

I work at fastfoodland later this morning. Think I'm going back to bed for now.

~ Jay


Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.