DFE, I'm sorry to hear you've had a bit of a rough time With regards to telling people, it's ok as long as it's the right kind of people. I try not to tell everyone I meet, but I tell the ones that I know are going to be supportive. Not necessarily on my side, but ones that want to see us back together. I can't stand people who I've told that say things like I'm better off without it or I'll meet someone better than him one day. Those people I've started to smile sweetly to and move on. I used to argue with them at first, but I don't anymore. At least you go out with your H, my H just doesn't want to know. I'm lucky that he'll sit with me in public lately! That was a nasty joke he played on you about kissing you. I think he was testing the water then to see whether you would still kiss him. I would say next time, no you're ok and laugh. This limbo time is not funny. My IC was talking about it yesterday to me. I've forgotton what she suggested now, lol. It couldn't have been that good! See my counsellor, although she's good to talk to doesn't follow the DB principles. Anyway, Hope you have a great weekend Speak soon
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
With regards to telling people, it's ok as long as it's the right kind of people. I try not to tell everyone I meet, but I tell the ones that I know are going to be supportive. Not necessarily on my side, but ones that want to see us back together. I can't stand people who I've told that say things like I'm better off without it or I'll meet someone better than him one day. Those people I've started to smile sweetly to and move on. I used to argue with them at first, but I don't anymore.
Speak soon 