Me 10 months on. Dark and detaching still.

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HWA,

These are hard questions and I believe only you knows what is right to do, but be sure to act on thinking and not on feeling. This is a situation where you could likely tend to act on feelings so do remember the 48 hour rule!

IMO:

So where should I go or what should I do about this pic of the tattoo and how it affected the family?

What is done is done and you can’t change that! Leave it be but do talk to your sons and friends.

I have spoken to my oldest son so far, and explained that I am sorry it was put up, but it was not to annoy or hurt their Mum. It was as a positive statement for me to continue in life with.

What did he say?

Do I or should I contact the friend?

If it is a close and dear friend then I would.

Do I contact the W and apologies?

I wouldn’t

Or still stay dark?

I would


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