Thank you both! I have considered the coaching sessions and may look into that more.
And thanks for the good advice and reminders. It helps to remember that this is a marathon. Just this evening I was feeling pretty sad at how distant my husband seems...it helps to get on here and find support.
I need to be stronger in doing things for myself (and my kids). I worry and wonder and stress about what he's thinking. How do you make yourself understand that you can't control the outcome of all this?! I drive myself crazy just thinking about the whole mess. I KNOW I need to stop worrying and thinking about it, but have such a hard time actually making myself stop. Ugh.
