So where should I go or what should I do about this pic of the tattoo and how it affected the family?
I have spoken to my oldest son so far, and explained that I am sorry it was put up, but it was not to annoy or hurt their Mum. It was as a positive statement for me to continue in life with.
Do I or should I contact the friend? Do I contact the W and apologies? Or still stay dark?
The W does know about the tattoo, but hasn't said anything to me, not that I would have expected her talking to me, with or without the tattoo issue.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.