They appear to have lost any sense of proportion about anything.
They worry about what the OW might be 'suffering' while trashing their families
They stay in a long long marriage and then inform us unblushingly that they were never happy. WTF??
They tell us they love us, but aren't 'in love' and then behave in the most hurtful and ridiculous ways imaginable.
We could all go on, and on, with examples
There is no proportionality in anything they do.
I could not agree with the above more.
And Wonka, I think your post is bang on. I have done things to others that I am not proud of or said some things I wish I could take back. Show me someone who hasn't. But the level and sustainability of the male MLCer's cruelty is mind bending to me. Even a complete stranger would secure compassion at the very least from me if they were obviously hurting. XSO left me in the apartment with my guts hanging out to go and be with his GF whom of course I didn't know existed. What kind of person does that?
