Dropping the Rope

[littleGTO]

Thank you, everyone, for the good advice. I will take time with what each of you said--your perspectives are invaluable!

longrun- Thanks for the "DBing master" comment! I have come a long way but it does feel like I am at some sort of crossroads.

ruby- you make me LOL! Concerning the "missing the kids" comments my H made...in the same breath he said, "Is running the kids around to all their activities and watching them all there is in life? Is this the mundate life I have to look forward to?" He might miss them but he certainly doesn't want to be a fully invested parents in their lives, as they are now. Sad, but true.

AS- Thanks for your comments and perspective. I do feel in a position of power...over my own destiny. I appreciate your viewpoint about cute D'ed guy too. I already have taken H off the pedestal I had him on for so lone & have recognized him for who he is and who has been.

BTW- cute D'ed is texting me now...will probably be asking me to come over in a minute...I will probably say yes.
But, I do know my boundaries with him too! So, I'll post more later.