Gday MrBond, you are so right and I didn't see that self-centered creeping back in. What I was trying to say with regards to others though, was not their faults towards themselves as seen by me, but more the way they are quick to find my faults. If that makes sense? Still though I do get your point of trying to get tolerance and understanding. Maybe the whole above comment I made is simply me whingeing. Maybe it is simply me not getting any expected responses from the people I thought cared about me. I am quick to say I wouldn't want my W back, but I do wonder if I could actually say that to her? Probably not. Again MrBond, thank you for my reality check. It was needed. Back to my DB basics.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.