"I really don't think I could have done anything different or better."
Actually you missed alot of what DBing is about. And that is the message of tolerance and understanding. You say that now you can see "faults" in others. That's incorrect. If you say others have "faults" you are measuring them against YOUR standard which others are going to disagree with. Your "standard" is no better than any one elses.
The way she treated you was wrong, however, so was the way that you treated her. And whereas you feel that she has been hurting you and your pride for the past few months, you had been hurting her for years and didn't do anything about it until she left.
Here was the quote from your first post: "For many years I have been a very self-centered person, very angry at things in general and probably not a very fun person to be with."
That self-centeredness is beginning to creep back in.
Just my 2 cents.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
