NQ I sometimes have done The something about saying XH but its depending who I'm talking to for example if its the utility company or any company that we both dealt with I would use the XH word but for other ppl I just tell them that we are separated at this time and we are still working on ourselves. Sometimes they story asking questions but sometimes they don't. But as the days passes is getting a bit easier to move on. I haven't called or text H lately since his melt down about me texting him that night. If I have to give him a message that doesn't have to do with the boys I have his mom tell him. Some how this way seems OK with him. Which I think is really wired but I'll keep doing it this way.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
