WAW just said that she wants to move on

[Confluences]

Slow, I get it...it's just a matter of getting it done. I made a promise to my MIL that I would not leave her daughter in a bind financially and I intend to keep that promise because my MIL has been very supportive of me during this separation and really wants us to work things out. I have not spoken to my MIL since June, just prior to things hitting rock bottom on Jul 1st.

It's one of these things where it's not about the money, it's about making things right because if I can get this resolved this month and show her that it's done then I can relax knowing I accomplished the task.

If we ultimately work things out and weather the firestorm, then I know we can fix us but if we don't then it will be very unfortunate and sad. However, I do take solace in the WAW scenarios that the LBS will set themselves up to make a great 2nd husband as a result of all that they have learned from the WAW separation.

I read a saying on here that you have to let them go in order for them to want to come back to you and I have definitely let her go for right now, so that part of the equation is complete. Slow, I really appreciate the thoughtful words of encouragement about my attitude towards my WAW....those type of re-assurances matter right now, so thank you.