Am starting to finally let my H go; I'm finally finding a small peace with in myself. Don't get me wrong I still miss him and I still would like for him to come home to our family. But I know its still a long way off if that will ever happen. But for right now I have to tell myself that he is not coming back to our family. Which is a sad way of thinking but it is helping me be more realax in my new life.
K, this is exactly how I feel as well. It is so much easier to relax and keep a PMA now. Detaching maybe?? I've even caught myself referring to him as my XH over the last few days. Sometimes its just easier to do that than saying separated; fewer questions.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
