180 oh my I didn't now how young your H's new friend. I really don't know how to answer that question. I'm really sorry for your new situation. Maybe if you keep your son occupied with other ppl or the events at your next gathering he my not see H new friend. I know next week at our family reunion my boys will be playing with their cousins so I won't worry about them. And I will be spendng my time with my sister in laws. And that is fine if you hijack my page I have learned much from being on this forum. Am starting to finally let my H go; I'm finally finding a small peace with in myself. Don't get me wrong I still miss him and I still would like for him to come home to our family. But I know its still a long way off if that will ever happen. But for right now I have to tell myself that he is not coming back to our family. Which is a sad way of thinking but it is helping me be more realax in my new life. I wish you all the best and I will be here for you when ever you need me.


M:42
H:37
M:14yrs
S:13; S:9
Found out PA:8/2012
2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013
H asked for D:6/2013
H moved out: 8/2013
H & OW moved in together: 8/2013