The second time around could be far worse than the first time around. In other words, if your mlcer was rather mild in the way of anger, the next time around he/she could be an angry soul the entire time. If your mlcer didn't spend a lot the first time around, he/she could be a really winner at spending until there's nothing left. The list could go on forever. Bottom line, there's no way to predict how they will be the next time around if they are "snatched" back to reality by something or someone.
Yes, there have been a few around, but that was a long time ago. I don't recall any in the recent years. Sorry!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.