I agree with AS, he's finally coming out of fog, thought he had answers, and is finding out the problems were HIS not yours. I think he had to drop in the comment so he feels like he's still in control a bit, obviously he's NOT.
It was always your choice when this was going to end, but possibly soon the choice might just involve a possible R. That's up to only you, I understand the betrayal. You've had to deal with a lot of emotional turmoil.
My only suggestion is keep an open mind without slowing down on yourself right now. You've come along way. Everyone here is so proud of the way you've handled the sitch. I hope everything works out for you, either way you choose to proceed.
