Hey T, This may or may not be helpful but women do tend to be more mood driven.
Also, I myself am indecisive and often just want my H to listen while I talk out loud. I make decisions by thinking out loud, he makes decisions internally and only speaking when a choice is made. He gets mad at me for changing my mind, I get mad that he won't just let me talk w/o knowing what I want before speaking.
One day I love my job, the next day I'm fed up with it. Same w/ the kids, one day they drive me nuts, the next I miss them while I'm at work. A lot of women just want to be able to come home, unload what happened in their day, and then start their night after being "heard." What your describing just sounds like she's looking for someone to listen to her.
I'm sure there is other WAW stuff mixed in, but mood driven actions/feelings might stick around even if things work themselves out between the two of you.
Hi s_i_d,
That actually helps a lot.
It's a bit of a shame I have to be told this and by 36 years old I don't have a handle on it already. I have always taken what she's says as her final word on the matter even though I know deep down she could/would still change her mind on things. I've never really stepped back and said this to myself to not get caught up in it rather than just letting her unload.
One question though...how are we H's supposed to have any idea on where our W's stand on the subject if it's always that flexible?
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