thing is, of course there is always problems in a marriage. And I have noted several times she had said things. So, I do see how some things were missed. Nonetheless, as I understand it now, a fog or depression or MLC is making her confusing to talk with. If she had just left as a normal person out of anger or anything hate then she would of just walked and even maybe told me she was. But, as you say Cadet it seems she is not normal and living as alice where everything is confused. I'm just trying to understand either she just walked with no storm exploding or she is indeed doing as alice (in wonderland)