My exh was also bullied by his father. I know this is one of his traumas that he has never dealt with nor does he even acknowledge.

So much of what you write rings true, b

The concern over ow will lbs and children get raked over the coals.

I had a meeting today with mediator and I really saw the jykel and Hyde thing. Stbx was so unemotional as usual about this divorce it's scary.

He talks to me with no acknowledgement of any of the pain. I feel like we are reviewing a lease to buy a car. It feels so strange to me being around him when he is so cold as ice. So so disconnected.

I pray for them because they are half a person. I also pray for them on behalf of my girls because I want them to have a dad who can connect with them


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13