Bea, I too think my xh was bullied, but by his mother. His father was never around...to busy chasing women and racking up at least 4 other wives along the way.
They do feel inferior to us and when mlc hits, the hurt, vulnerable child comes out swinging and they want to lash out at the world.
Well the person in my xh's body is someone very different from the person I knew for over 25 years. Sometimes it's a teenager and other times a very different man. Can't say it's a mature man because of all the things he puts out on the net...but surely different.
So, Bea, soldier on and keep your wonderful sense of humor in place. He's still stuck or should I say rowing he board in circles?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
