Hi hurt, you're doing really well I'm really impressed I too don't want to be whistling in the dark, but I'd like to see where I'm going with this. If you want, set yourself a time frame - say a year from now and if after a year then evaluate where you are and whether you would still want her back. I've given my H a year and I'm going to see what happens after that. My H said he was going to start D proceedings, but to date I've heard nothing. I'm assuming it's because he can't afford the fees. I'm not going to bring this up as I don't really want to know. Hope you have a good time this weekend, keep us updated
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I too don't want to be whistling in the dark, but I'd like to see where I'm going with this. If you want, set yourself a time frame - say a year from now and if after a year then evaluate where you are and whether you would still want her back. I've given my H a year and I'm going to see what happens after that. 