NQ, sounds like you handled the sitch with H and OW very well. If S13 talks to you about it, remember your validation techniques, it really helps the kids when you sympathize with their emotions. You don't have to explain your H's actions, that's between H and S. Just give him emotional support.

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I still want things to work out between us


Try to put that on the back burner for now, he's a long way from getting to that point.

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I might drop them at the pool and go to the library next door, leave them to enjoy the pool and I'll sit and read quietly.


Great idea!


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57