Squirrel update. Got a text asking about what movie to see, and a FB message asking if she could do laundry here.
Then I got a text saying she understand if I hate her and that relationship hasn't changed, and if I don't want to do things as friends she'd understand. Not sure which R she was referring too (ambiguous language, ours) but I just let it slide.
She immediately followed up with asking how I got produce (I mentioned it on FB) and if I needed groceries to let her know. Then asked me to remind her about getting cat food and litter when we're at Petsmart tonight. Then she made a joke about my FB profile and we bantered back and forth a bit on that.
For us, if we are going to make any progress, we do need to be friends. For some people, that doesn't work. I understand that. And I was prepared for the 2 steps forward, 1 step back dance. So, just staying the course. Wish me luck for being a good DBer tonight. Going to be several hours, so it's going to take some endurance.