Your lonely, so you think you should date? Dating is what your friends tell you to do because its "the next step".Instead do something by yourself.
That nasty, painful, lonely time is when you grow. Do you find yourself thinking about the M when your alone? The kids? What you had?.......YOU NEED TOO!
You will get sad, you will get angry, you will cry, you will scream, hell I hyperventilate sometimes.
But you need to like yourself. In order to do that you need to find out who you are now. That last 10 years have changed you.
Remember a strong relationship happens when TWO STRONG INDIVIDUALS come together
You are not there- she is not there
I understand your busy...we are all busy and work cant be our identity. So, what are you doing for you?
What does Maritimer do for fun? What is Maritimer doing now to improve himself?
What are some long term goals? What short term goals have you identified to help you achieve them?
If your going to make the difficult decision to spend time with you and invest in yourself- Do it the right way. Its hard as hell but wow!
Folks drink to escape Folks use weed to escape
Escape from what???????? NOW IS THE TIME TO SLAY THE DRAGON
I never did drugs but I drank (not abuse)and over-ate. Obviously, I wasnt happy.
Now Im 70+ lighter and havent had a drink since Jan 7. (except one day on 8/2)
Im not going to run from anything anymore.
Your wife will take notice when your awesome
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
