That is so true Cadet smile The only person that can help them is themselves smile Like an alcoholic, they can only give up alcohol by admitting to themselves that that is the problem smile In the past I've tried talking to my H about his depression, but then you get accused of nagging them. If I let him get on with it by himself, he would do smile As with the depression, H says that he can deal with it without any outside help. I think that he will get to the stage where he is crying out for help from the doctors. Am I right Cadet or can they go on forever without getting any professional help?


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!