T, FY, rH, CP, TDF, NLT at first I was incredulous that your spouses would think you'd be willing to remain the very best of friends and maybe even still live together after D (although why I thought that ANY idea put forward by a MLCer could ever be too far fetched is beyond me).
But isn't this sort of the life our spouses who are carrying on EAs and PAs are actually living? And the Standers continue to STFU and DB until the MLCer wakes up, or the Stander snaps.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17