I understand the dangling carrot, as I feel that H is sometimes doing that with me, just to keep me hanging on. In the long run, though, you are trying to save your marriage. Keep up your DB'ing and stay positive.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
