Yes, it really is all about TIME. At the moment I continue going from angry to sad to I just dont give a shirt...then back around again...Cadet, I wanted to ask you about this. How did you deal with the knowledge your WAW had depression, confusion or MLC and you couldn't help her to see this? I realize you didnt see it in the beginning based on what u said on how you came here in the originally thinking. What Im trying to get at is when it's so obvious they r in a fog or confused either husband or wife how can they seem to do so well in their day to day living, work, etc..just everyday life... You would think that anyone somewhat close to them would notice something is amiss.....