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[Not Quitting]

So the meeting went well. H was very pleasant, not just civil. The paperwork had our marital status as "Married" and he made no attempt to have it corrected, so I didn't either. He also talked about the 3 of us doing something on Sunday when he comes for his weekly visit to S13.

No mention by either of us about last weekend, which suits me fine because I'm not sure I would have been very pleasant about it.

One of my friends says H is just dangling that carrot again and she's worried I might take the bait. Said I've developed a severe allergy to dangling carrots. In fact, when I dropped him off after the meeting I felt no emotion at all, unlike the last few times when I've had to fight the tears so he didn't see them.