He needs alot of time alone to have his own Pity Partys. He needs to experience the loss. Not to mention you may have grown past him.
He sounds like he reverted to the scared little boy.
Dont fall into the trap ...GAL 2x harder now
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13