I do not feel that I am waiting. What I mean is...it would be one thing if he decided to take a stand for his family, decide that he wanted to save his marriage and told OW to buzz off.
But that is not happening.
And maybe it will at some point but if that point is not until he's been with her a year or two and he comes back to his family just because she dumped him...would that be OK for me? That makes me feel like I would be Plan B.
I don't know. Just thinking out loud. Most days I don't think he's ever coming home, ever so it doesn't really matter.
