Emotional Connection and Attraction

[BC39]

Thanks Accuray. Just so I'm clear, I don't disagree with you. Everything you've said in the last few posts could very well be true and required in my sitch. I'm just not sure NOW is the best time to do it, but I could be wrong. I'm trying to wrap my head around everything at the moment.

I'm going to reply in more detail when I get some more time.

I can't remember if this was discussed in your threads already, but is Retrouvaille an option? It will totally transform the way the two of you communicate.

Retro is actually coming to our area next month. I'm a little apprehensive on suggesting it since W said last week she's currently in a place that she "doesn't feel like working on M at the moment" and "doesn't like talking about it" and "doesn't think MC would be currently beneficial".

But if you read my transcript of that convo last week she quickly went to "I'm so glad we're talking about" and "it makes me feel better talking to you about it". Her actions since have been leaning more to her working on it. It can be confusing.

Thanks AS, your feedback and insight is always appreciated...


Anyway, I have no doubt retro would be helpful. Can you tell me a little more of how it works? Is it mostly sitting back and listening? If interactions/discussions are required with other people W will feel uncomfortable, but if I told her all we had to do was sit and listen and just talk to each other she may be more open to it.