Thanks AnotherStander Knowing that she is sleeping with this guy is a deal breaker for me, especially now that she is talking marriage talk with me. You are right, proper DBing would just ignore all this and continue to work on self. I am going to talk to the lawyer, give myself some more time to cool my head and then I will make a decision on the next course of action. Even if she was pregnant, I would want to make this work but she believes that I will always be there for her and I need her to know that I need to setup boundaries and self respect if this is to work out. I fear it might be too late.
