Me 10 months on. Dark and detaching still.

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I was defriended by my W and her family recently. No reason why, I have been friendly with them. Its hard to be rejected by the people you care about. Im thinking she don't want me to know who she is meeting online. It has made it easier for me not seeing her updates on the feeds. I do miss the updates on what the kids are up to.

Great choice on focusing on yourself. Easier said than done.

Best of luck on your transfer! Sometimes a change of scenery makes a world of difference.