I went on a ghost hunt tour with lil sister last Saturday. I never was a believer, but she had an encounter a few years back that I found quite compelling, especially coming first hand from someone I trusted. Anyways, we enjoyed a few chills, and at one point almost busted our guts laughing! We may do another ghost tour.
W is nearing the final deadlines for her big work projects. Staying late every night, working weekends. She is holding up quite well... in the past this period was always very hard on her. Like every year, she's planning a fun event for her entire department once the projects are completed. Thanks to me, it may be a ghost hunt tour this year!
Last night W gets a msg from GF: Come to our usual club and meet new BF! W seems almost giddy and goes. Tells me all about it afterwards and shows me a pic of the 3 of them. (arm in arm, BF in the middle)
It seems she may be living vicariously through these other people. ...Fantasy new life, without leaving the security and comfort of the old. Funny thing is, I've never held her back from doing things... and still don't.
I told her "Isn't it great how we can just get up and do things with others on a moments notice like you did tonight?"
She said "Yeah, but I never would have gone in the past"
She's got to figure out this whole new life thingy. I wonder how long it will take and if I'll still be there when she does.
Thanks for following.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
