MrCAS...Moving out has had its challenges. Lack of internet being one of them
Other than that, I have accepted what is going on and making a stronger attempt to detach and move on. My W may or may not sign the final D paperwork...but it has more to do with her Healthcare costs, than being interested in resolving any marital problems.
I did see a crack in her armor the other day. I was at the house picking up things when we discussed her healthcare problem. I simply told her that I loved her, and it didnt matter what a piece of paper said, and always would. It was a little more involved than that, but she did tear up a bit, and I could see it weighed on her....which is something new, because before she was cold like ice.
Not saying anything is better, even remotely. She still doesnt want to work it out. I am 99.9999% sure theres OM. Sooooooo, I am just hanging out and moving on.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013