This life is more than just a read through

[reachingHigher]

Because I'm brave, (or stupid) I once told W "so you're going to find someone new, and it'll be real hot for a year or two, and then turn cool. What then?

I told H the same thing more than once and so did his IC.

I think that helped him with thinking through his issues and trying to find a solution for his pain that didn't include an OW.