She is the distancer, and you will find yourself locked in the pursuer/distancer dance which can go on for years. You will feel like you're getting barely enough and will feel undervalued and she will feel unfulfilled -- I hope I'm wrong, but if she's not bought in I don't see pursuing connection as the cure.
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
