Snodderly, thank you - I suppose I find 8 years worth of MLC a bit sad.
But honestly, I am chuckling to myself to think he could be bothered to comb back through all the paperwork to discover this. It may or may not be correct but I do not care - it is horribly funny. He is about to spend money on his second home, so I imagine he needs every last cent!!
I hope that the meeting goes well, but I know that my youngest son needs to say some hard things to my xh about how he treated his family. The rest of us have pretty much written him off as a lost cause, but youngest son keeps hoping . . . . I do think this meeting is a deal breaker for him though.