If they needed something different then they should have asked. We are creative spouses....if they wanted drama, we could have done drama. If they wanted a "new attitude", we could have been a b or a jerk, needy or whatever it is that they think they're missing! LOL I guess I shouldn't speak for you two but I can be a woman of many different faces! HA! The problem is, he knows that and still chose to take up with another person.
kml, Don't you wish some of these men that you're dating would call your xh and tell him what a fool he was to give you up? My h said the same thing about the last long term relationship that I was in before he and I met. "Your old bf was a fool to give you up." Wish I could remind him of what he said all of those years ago. Although I think he knows that, he just can't help himself. We're having the same conv on T2's thread right now.
Fy, good point. People don't usually hang around for decades with a person that they can't think of anything specific or significant to complain about. Doesn't it feel good to hear them say that they KNOW how fortunate they are/were?
Keep doing what you're doing. You're almost there...wherever that is. LOL
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
