Thanks CP. Best thing is meeting should only take 15 minutes so with travel it'll only be an hour or so with H. And if course I have to concentrate on the driving not talking.

He sounded a bit offish when he called tonight. Wants to take S13 to local pool one night next week. Had to tell him local pool closes at 7 and that when I take him to pool it's a bit further away and indoors. Said if he didn't object to me going along he could come with us one night next week. He said ok. I might drop them at the pool and go to the library next door, leave them to enjoy the pool and I'll sit and read quietly.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks