Fantasy meets Reality

[Notlikingthis]

Hi Bea and RL RL, How is your eye doing? Take care of yourself. You need to be 100% for your trip! Any more results from the tests?

We can be devious when we need to be, can't we? I love that you left things in the car that your h was using while RT was here. I'm sure she checked everything out looking for clues as to who her competition was. LOL Fortunately, most of us don't see the op as the competition but rather an irritating habit or obsession that our spouses have picked up on their journey. So the next time you think of the RT, think of her that way and that he'll grow out of it as he matures.

As for the health insurance and the ow. Yep, she's married and apparently isn't ready to give up her h or her lifestyle back home yet. He registered her as his SO on the insurance. Most companies have that as an option for unmarried people. Yeah, that was a bit of a slap but unless it comes back to bite me then I don't care. As far as the insurance company is concerned, I had no idea that he put her on there as a SO and since my daughter and I have insurance, I would have no reason to give up mine for his. This past year they changed his insurance to one of those high deductible types that has a huge out of pocket amount. I would have opted out of his anyway and stayed with my traditional PPO. So yes, he will be in big trouble should the insurance company catch on to his scam.

Bea, you are so right. Like your H, mine feels entitled to that and everything else that he wants. That's part of the reason that I wanted to expose him, he needs a wake-up call. My h is so much like yours in that in his business world he is well regarded and in many ways has the "Midas touch". He's been very successful and has had "people" that do the menial chores for him. Admin assistants, minions and yes people to take the blame for any (God forbid) errors that he might make. Over the past few years that entitlement attitude has spilled over into his personal life. I understand how that happens in business, people putting them on a pedestal and hanging on their every thought or idea but at least pretend to be humble in your personal life! It's pretty sad to watch this man turn into a monster that way.

H called and left a message early this morning saying that his internet wasn't working again and that he'd see me in a few minutes. He didn't ask, he just told me he was coming over assuming that I would be here. If I'd had a bit more warning I would have left before he got here. He did some work, made some calls and left saying that he'd be back around 8pm. I didn't ask why but it can't be good. He's usually winding down by this time of the evening. Not sure what he's got on his mind but I'm thinking positive at this point. Keep me in your thoughts just in case.

More later

Oh, btw, nothing on the earring yet.