Husband Threatened to Leave, Don't know what to do

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Oh and he has been sleeping good lately too! Full nights sleep and hasn't been moody since Saturday so that's a nice change...his days off with us seems to make him happier. He did tell me he has a new way of thinking moving forward. He wants to make me happy but at the same time not at the expense of making himself unhappy. For example, when he goes out he said in the last he has felt like at a certain time he needs to come home. Csuse that's what married men do. He has realized that that doesn't make sense. If he is having fun there is nothing wrong with staying out. He stills contacts me through the night and let's me know where he is and when he thinks he will be home so that's all that matters according to him. He does do this...I always get a 2 am text saying where he is and when he thinks he will be home. Even since this has started. He has been very respectful of my feelings. I understand what he is saying. Cause when I am out and having fun I don't think it makes sense to leave at a certain time especially when you H is at home sleeping! So he just explained to me that he doesn't want to do things in his life cause society makes it out to be right or wrong. He wants to do things according to what makes us happy with who we are and want to do. He said he is tired of changing who he is and acting certain ways cause he is married. He just wants to be himself and be the married man he wants to be and that I want him to be.

We seem to be making progress. Time seems to be on my side. And he is appreciating my changes and in turn seems to be respecting me more...