I stopped DBing after a filed for divorce. I figured that if I have given up on the marriage, then whats the point. But, I noticed lately that I am getting angrier at my W.
I am thinking of going back to to doing some of the things I was doing when I was DBing. Those include limiting contact, forcing a better PMA, GALing, etc...
People on here are constantly saying that you DB for yourself, not to reconcile your marriage. They just may be right.
