While wife was talking to one of our friends, she saw my date and I walking down the steps. She said, "this is going to be awkward"...and I walked right on by....haha
Actually, NO! I would much rather not have seen her, or to have her see me. My night would have been more enjoyable without her presence.
In regards to who it would be more awkward for, I won't even give that any time to consider. I have completely given up on making rhyme or reason about wife. She has become a complete stranger to me....I don't get it, and I probably never will. I will still choose to better myself, work harder on ALL of my relationship and continue my personal growth. However, my DBing days, at the least in terms of trying to save my marriage, are all over. I am throwing in the towel.
I stopped DBing after a filed for divorce. I figured that if I have given up on the marriage, then whats the point. But, I noticed lately that I am getting angrier at my W.
I am thinking of going back to to doing some of the things I was doing when I was DBing. Those include limiting contact, forcing a better PMA, GALing, etc...
People on here are constantly saying that you DB for yourself, not to reconcile your marriage. They just may be right.
Oh, I get you there big buck... I just forgot to put on the little winky face. Eeeps. Sorry. Was meant as a rhetorical question...
Hey, if W had to see you at least you were with a date... LOL!
I agree that continuing to DB is a good thing. I was amazed at how using many of the techniques in DB affect the rest of my life in a very positive way.
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter
