Today was D's endoscopy and biopsies. Hard to watch her go through that, but good that H and I are in a kind of good place. He gave me a hug after they put her under, and was very friendly with his mom and sister in the waiting room, whom he's not talked to much since he left two months ago. D is doing well, by the way
Yesterday when I got home (his evening with D) he hung out on the couch watching TV with me for 45 minutes or so. We made mostly small talk, but he also mentioned that I had gotten an invite in the mail (he got the mail that day as he has D at our house) and it was addressed to me + "guest." He seemed perturbed by this, which is awfully ironic. He has a wedding next week and (although I shouldn't) I came back with was he going with EA girl? He said he wasn't sure...might take someone else, might go alone. To me, this is positive. He did not say absolutely yes, didn't tell me to bug off, etc. Seemed to acknowledge I had a right (kind of) to the question as he had just asked me one). I jokingly said I would go as technically I had been the one invited months ago, per the invite that's in our cabinet. He said his friends (new friends, by the way, who've never really met me) would kill him as he's told them all how awful I was. Well that's comforting! Glad he's basing decisions off of what others think...not sure how to overcome the friend factor as I have no connection with the new friends, and he's dropped our old friends who he knows think he's wrong.
Me: 26 H: 28 T:8 M:5 D:2 BD:4/1/13 Separated 6/6/13 Filed separation 6/21/13 Waiting for D papers to be served, H says filed
