your poem made me cry, but it was a good cleansing cry. much needed sometimes. How long has your H's MLC been going on J? Mine is 4 years this month, and it is sheerly wearing me out! You said you are reading that Munson book right? She got all sick of DBing and wanted a deadline after 3 1/2 months. Sigh....
Thanks for sharing his insights about OW's sensitivity. Poor girl, this is SO hard on her! Sounds like you're right, two MLCers zoomed in and found each other with that special MLC radar.
I like your H's list of considerations! Very MLCish! Can we all add suggestions? Um...forest ranger? Professional ice hockey player?
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17