Flyonthewall.. I am going to back off discussing the job issue for a couple of days so I can think about things. One of the reasons he is pressing me is because the kids start school in the fall, and we would need to find a daycare very soon if I were to go back to my job. He has stated we cannot afford for me to stay at home with the kids anymore, which was the original plan.
He believes we might be spending more money than we are currently making, now that he is not allowed overtime at work. In all fairness, he was worked extra long hours for the past year so we could make ends meet and so that I could stay at home.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.